How to Attract a Woman
Using Body Language to Gain Attention
One of the most underrated
things that guys overlook when trying to learn How to Attract a
Woman, is the aspect of Body Language.
Body language is one of
the most misunderstood myths, over studied things in dating science.
There is no such thing as "perfect" body language when trying
to attract a woman. Good body language is just relaxed
and controlled. Slow movement, not moving too fast, not in a hurry,
just nice and slow, not afraid to take up space but not actively
trying to take up too much space.
Lengthening and straightening
is huge when it comes to using body language to attract a
woman. Your shoulders should be back, your arms should be
swinging. You don't want to carry any tension in your shoulders. You
also should make sure that your head is straight. A lot of people
bend their heads down or forward. This projects low confidence and
will hurt your efforts to attract a woman.
You also want to make sure
you're leaning back and that your weight is evenly distributed. One
of the biggest things I've seen from teaching literally hundreds of
boot camps at this point, is that if you don't keep your feet
shoulder-distance apart to seem confident and attractive to women.
You're going to lose your
balance if you're talking to a woman in a crowded place because
people are going to bump into you, and if people keep bumping into
you, it looks like you're trying too hard to stay and talk to these
women. But if you simply shift your feet a little bit further out
and you keep your shoulders above your feet, you'll actually have no
problems getting bumped and you'll also come off a lot more
confident. The key in learning how to attract a woman with body
language, is to project confidence.
Also, make sure that you don't
move your hands too much. Hands movements can be cool, but if you do
it too much, it starts to interrupt the noise to signal ratio.
Body language is just there to not complicate that. You don't
need your body language to be sending any crazy message or
anything like that, you just need it to send a clear confident
picture that you are what you say you are, you're confident, and
yes, attractive to women. The more relaxed, the better.
So remember, the key in
learning how to attract a woman with body language is to
project your most confident, relaxed self.