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How to Get Women
Dealing with Her Tests
A key overlooked characteristic
when learning how to get women, is the act of being
non-reactive.
Basically, to get women, you have to be non-reactive to a lot
of things. When two people interact, you also have someone being
more emotionally reactive to the other person. Basically we only
have emotional reaction to things that we perceive to have some sort
of value on them.
For example, if you're walking down the street and some homeless guy
is like, "I'm gonna kill you" from across the street, but he's
sitting down and not coming towards you and he's just kind of
mumbling, you're not that frightened, there's no real threat there.
However, if he's right in your face and wielding a knife all of a
sudden the situation is different. The same thing happens like with
the idea of being told to fuck off, if you walk up to a 6-year-old
girl and you ask her if she's lost and she needs help to find her
mom, and she's like, "Fuck off", it's kind of funny. If you walk up
to the girl of your dreams and she tells you to fuck off, it can be
crushing.
So how does this tie in to learning how to get women?
What it helps with is things like ignoring conversational threads
that don't help you; that can be not answering questions that don't
help you, it could be ignoring the girl when she's testing you, or
being bratty, but the idea is, we're not going to be thrown off our
course, we're emotionally non-reactive. Any reaction she has to us
or to what we're doing is not going to change the course of events
on our side. It doesn't mean that you're necessarily going to get
guaranteed success, but it means you can control your own reactions
and not get baited into an emotional reaction, or qualifying
yourself by other people.
When women see that they can't rattle you emotionally, you come off
as strong and confident. It's these types of people who know exactly
how to get women, and women always go for these guys.
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