How to Attract Women
A Technique to Gain Attention
A great technique to use when
learning how to attract women, is something I call "walking
Walking in is about becoming
the social center of the group. Now you don't always need a wall to
do this, sort of lean up against the bar, but what you need to do
when you open and you start your attraction material, is you need to
reshape the group so that they're facing you. This can be as simple
as tapping two women on the inside of their shoulders and taking a
step forward to make sure that you're firmly in the center and that
everyone's paying attention to you. It can also be something as
simple as going, Hey, I hate being on the outside-scoot over; and
moving a girl 2 feet off the bar so that you can stand in the
middle. When you want to attract women, you need to place
yourself in a confident / dominant position.
But no matter what, you don't
want to be the guy standing on the outside because as soon as you do
that, you start to hemorrhage social value, because a really cool,
confident guy with women in his life and who women are attracted to
just simply is not going to work that hard to meet girls. You see
the really cool guys in VIP tables are surrounded by women. They're
not usually trying that hard but somehow they attract women.
So girls are very trained to look for signs that a guy is not
actually cool based on his behavior. So you want to avoid being "try
hard" and you want to get comfortable with being the center of a
group and not just pecking for the outside.
So be aware of that key when
learning how to attract women.